Monday, July 16, 2018

Summertime: Stay Home Summer Camp


Longer days of tons of play.  Air condition and swimming pools all sizes.  Lemonade and lazy days.  Sunshine, adventure time, this summer thing goes on-and-on.

At first this montage is such a welcome reprieve.  Everyone is excited for a break from homework, a break from the mundane routine of the constancy of school-year-life.  But then it happens.... mid-summer!  

Summer-break, so highly anticipated by the time May rolls around, begins to drag.  The new summer toys and shoes and clothes are showing their wear.  The new adventures planned and summer schedule laid out are adopting their own form of mundane monotony and, before long, everyone is secretly craving the old "new" routine of the school year to come!

But Summer-break is not over yet.  If you are homeschoolers like us, running on the ebb and flow of public school friends so you don't hear, "But neighbor friend Johnny is on summer break, why can't I be on summer break so I can play with him."  And, if you are like me, taking summer to breathe and lesson plan out your next school year... then you aren't ready quite yet to crack those new school books.  Or, perhaps, you are a public schooling family counting down the days till school opens... either way, what do you do with these 'dog days of summer'?

REVIVE!

It isn't too late for a new plan.  Let's call it, Stay Home Summer Camp, and we are going to give our camp a name.  You can call it Camp (family name) or you can plan a Crafting Camp or Adventure Camp or Family Fun Camp... the sky is the limit. 


Why "camp"?  Well, what is camp?  Day camp or overnight camp... either way, it is a gathering of people (usually kiddos), coming together to DO stuff set out and supervised by adults.  Often, but not always, on a theme.  There can be crafts, culinary adventures, nature walks, sporting activities (including swimming), and so on.  Now, don't over-think this, but here is my proposal:

Prepare
Pick a montage of many different things or a single theme you feel capable of planning and directing your kids in (and possibly their friends who will find out and think it is awesome and want to participate too!)  Think; things your kids enjoy, or have begged you to try, or you think they would like to learn to do in a hands-on sort of way. This doesn't have to be highly complicated.  It can be as simple as "Soccer day; we will set up a goal between two trees in the back yard and practice.....".  You don't need an hourly plan or detailed summary.  Just a bulls-eye to shoot your darts at! 

Once you have narrowed down one or a few ideas, make a brain-dump list of all the things you could do in that theme/montage.  Remember: you are on summer-break too.  This isn't meant to be a HUGE amount of "work" for you, rather, it is intended to be directed fun... honest, that IS a thing!!

As you are brain-dumping, think about frequency.  Do you want to have your club daily, every-other-day, once-a-week.... be realistic.  Also, set the time of day and length you expect to spend in "camp" adventures.  If your kiddos are anything like mine were, you could easily be their playmate/play director from morning till night and they would love you all the more for it!!  However, "camp" is meant to get their creative juices flowing.  Whatever time you set out to spend with them each day in "camp" pursuits, it is OK to say, "I will be done at 2:00 but you can keep on doing...." whatever it is they are doing.  Unless, of course, the activity is one which requires parental supervision like baking and certain crafts.  Still, it is OK to set an "end" to the activity with the promise that on such-and-such day "we will do some more"!

Pump it up
As with the whole "adventure" theme I've been writing on this summer... GET EXCITED!!  You can do this one of two ways. 
  1. You can create "mystery" for your kids by alluding to the fact something cool is going to happen on 'Monday'.  Then, on 'Monday', reveal your Camp.
  2. You can just tell them (with excitement of course), "How would you guys like to do a Stay-Home-Summer-Camp" and share with them the essence of the thing, telling them what days and times you will be holding "camp", count it down, and generally BE EXCITED with them!  

You can also involve them in some of the planning.  As my kiddos were growing up, most summers were host to various Stay Home Summer Camps.  I would usually call a family meeting (minus dad because he would be at work- but you could add dad if you think he would enjoy participating!) and survey them on what they would like to do.  I would usually mention some base-line ideas I had and any theme I was considering.  Then I would collect their ideas on activities.  Some years I would leave the bulk of the planning and themes up to them, acting as scribe and coordinator to help coral their creative flow and get realistic plans set. 


One year we weren't able to finish our science curriculum by the time we wanted to wrap up for a summer break so, after a "class" meeting we decided to have a "Summer of Science" (blogged here!)  No book work (one stipulation which got them fully on board!), just exploration and experiments.  Neighborhood kids saw what we were doing and often joined in!  We all had a blast.

Play it out  
It's go-time.  I can't stress it enough: DON'T STRESS, don't over-plan, just relax and enjoy!!!  Keep it simple, don't expect perfection, keep a child's heart within yourself about the whole thing and have fun with them.  Stay Home Summer Camping adventures can include field trips, library trips, story times, pool days, beach days and so on.  You can even pack journals and invite your kids to draw pictures, jot observations, and even create a scrapbook complete with taped-on tickets, feathers, pictures and so on.

Don't spoil it with schoolish stuff though (unless that is what they ask for!!).  When I say, Invite them, I do mean just that.  Don't force them, rather, let them know they have a choice.  But, also, let them know that the days and times you have set are the only days and times you will be doing these activities together.  So, essentially: 'you snooze - you loose'.

I can tell you honestly, with the exception of some of my teens (when they were teens), not a single one of my kids ever passed up an opportunity for Stay Home Summer Camp.  They all looked forward to the adventures and activities each "camp" day would hold!

Overwhelmed?  Don't be.  I have designed a FREE worksheet to help get the creative juices flowing as you jot your ideas. 

http://faithandhome.com/images//printable/StayHomeSummerCamp.pdf

http://faithandhome.com/images//printable/StayHomeSummerCamp.pdf
You can click on the images above or go to the link in text to print your copy.  Also, I hope to share some more detailed ideas of Stay Home Summer Camps in coming articles.  If you have ANY questions, please don't hesitate to let me know!

Do you have summer activities or themes you plan with your family each year?  I would love to hear about it!  For now, I pray all your summer memories this year are genuine and lasting!

Blessings,







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Friday, July 13, 2018

Summertime: Recipes for a Good Time!


I've shared a couple of posts in the Summertime series so far and in each I have mentioned the fun food we always enjoyed during our summer adventures.  Today I thought I would share some of those quick, easy, cooler-kitchen-in-the-hot-weather recipes!

Lemonade the Healthier Way
We should have bought a cow when my kids were growing up, they drank soooooo much milk.  But, when summertime sauntered in, stock in Kool-aid would have been more like it.  I was troubled, though, by the lack of nutritional value in the nostalgic little packets mixed with an insane amount of sugar.... it was really flavored, colored, sugar water!  Then, one day I stumbled upon this insane fact:  Making homemade lemonade is crazy easy!!  Are you ready for this?

1 cup lemon juice
1 cup sugar
1/2 gallon water

Bada-bing, bada-boom, and Bob's your uncle!  I buy lemon juice and organic sugar in bulk at Costco and, I will admit, Kool-aid and regular white sugar is much cheaper... however... when the pennies stretch and allow, this concoction allows me to say "yes" to my kids guzzling back a few icy glasses full with less stress.  As a matter of fact, it is loaded with vitamin C!!


Lemonade with a Twist 
Take the above recipe and throw in a few cups of your favorite frozen fruit.  We love raspberries and when you add blueberries as well, it has an almost Kool-aid-ish taste, only it's healthy!  We had company this past week and my youngest daughter loaded our 2 gallon mason jar drink dispenser and threw a mixture of raspberries and blueberries into the insertable diffuser and our guests couldn't get enough of the sweet drink!!

FREEZE!! 
Use the above lemonade with or without the fruit and pour into cleaned out plastic pudding, jello or yogurt cups.  Cover with plastic wrap and poke a Popsicle stick through the center of the wrap (the wrap will keep the stick upright).  Place in freezer overnight.  To remove the Popsicle, place the cup in warm water or under a warm running faucet for a few seconds and the Popsicle should slide right out.  When we first did these I didn't know about the plastic wrap trick, we simply laid our Popsicle sticks in the cups so that once the Popsicle was removed the stick was at a slant and this worked fine as well.


PB&J Trail Mix 
I invented this fun snack on a sheer spark of pre-beach-visit kitchen adventure while trying to dream up a healthy and interesting treat!

Popcorn (plain or lightly buttered/salted)
Plain peanuts (no shell)
Raisins or Cran-raisins (or other favorite dried fruit)

I usually made my popcorn in a popper and, taking approximately 8 cups, I would add a couple handfuls each (equal parts) peanuts and dried fruit and toss.  I would store in a bag or container and the kids always looked forward to snacking while resting between daring dives and splash-abouts!

(for bigger families/crowds, Costco has great deals on all of these ingredients)

Peanut Butter Balls
These keep best in the fridge and don't travel as well as other snacks.  However, they are a great summer snack for the back yard and require 0 kitchen heating to make!

1/2 cup powdered milk
1/2 cup peanut butter (creamy or chunky)
1/4 cup honey
1/2 cup finely crushed graham crackers

Mix well and then form bite-size balls.  Place on wax paper covered baking sheet and refrigerate just until chilled (1-2 hours).  Kids love helping with this recipe.  I modified it from an edible play-dough recipe which calls for 1/2 cup oats instead of graham crackers!  Once set, keep PB balls stored in airtight container in refrigerator. 

**WARNING**  It is not safe to give children honey when they are under the age of 1.  If you have children around under the age of 1 I do not recommend this recipe in the event they could accidentally ingest the honey.

Cream Cheese Tortilla Rolls
The first time I had these was at a baby shower and they were served to adults!!  The adult recipe calls for chopped green onions but I am omitting that to make this more kid-friendly:

1 package cream cheese, softened
16 oz. container sour cream
1-2 cups grated cheddar or mexi-mix cheese
1 package flour tortillas (any size)

Mix the cheeses and sour cream well.  Using a rubber spatula, spread a thick layer on one tortilla.  Roll tortilla and cut into thirds (for smaller tortillas) or fourths (for larger tortillas) and serve!  Older kids might like these dipped in some salsa!


As my Summertime series progresses I may think of a few more recipes worth sharing.  These are the ones I have alluded to so far.  Our summers were host to not only my 4 kiddos, but often their friends from around the neighborhood.  It seemed more cost-effective to find easy, stretchable recipes for feeding the 'crowd' and having fun.  I would love to hear some of your great summertime recipes as well!

I pray your summer is blessed with  good times right-where-you-are, good food with what your pantry holds, and great memories to last a lifetime!

Blessings,







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Monday, July 9, 2018

Summertime: Backyard Beach/Pool Party

What is the big kick-off for your summer?  Do you have any special routines or traditions?  As my kiddos were growing up summer always burst into action with birthdays.  Three to be exact.  We rarely had individual parties, except for the milestones, and at one point we would have a mid-month group party geared more towards summer kick-off than birthday (though cake was always on the menu).

These non-birthday-birthday parties varied in themes, usually involved ice-cream and cake food fights (mandatory outside) and it wasn't uncommon to find water-guns or water-balloons introduced at some point in the day's festivities.


As summer waxed on I loved finding ways to get creative with water-time activities, especially on those scorching days.  We lived by a large freshwater lake so, home pool days needed something of an appeal to make the hard sell over beach-side wanderings.  Whether the backyard adventures involved just us or the whole neighborhood, I always tried to make the activities fun and memorable.

The Pool Part of a Pool Party
Some years we had a kiddie pool and, with how hard my ADHD daughter wore on 'toys', it was usually a different pool each year... from your run-of-the-mill pre-molded plastic one to the typical roll-up collapsible sided vinyl kind.  One year we were even blessed with a blow-up "Lagoon" complete with built-in slide and water features (thank you grandma and grandpa!!).  Whatever size and shape our watering hole was, there were staples which went with pool/beach party adventure days:
  • buckets and water toys exclusive to 'pool' time
  • beach towels specifically for pooling around!
  • pan of water to rinse feet prior to pool entry to keep water clean (it held out for a while anyway!)
  • special pool time snacks
  • ice cold lemonade
  • floaties (which work great even in only 15" of water!)
It isn't to say that some days were probably your average 'kids in the pool' with nothing spectacular outside of the expected squeals and splashing... but having special pool-side traditions made it feel like more than a 15" deep excursion into the back yard... no, it felt more like a resort get-away and no one ever wanted to leave the water's edge when the day wore down!


Non-pool Water Fun
Whether you can't get/don't want a kiddie pool there are water-fun alternatives... we have tried many:
  • The slip-n-slide, home-made or store bought is loaded with potential fun!  For homemade; remember the sprinkler and try some baby oil on the plastic to get everyone sliding better.
  • Water guns or water cannons and a bucket of water or hose to keep them filled (the Dollar Store has some great suck-and-soak 'guns'[like water cannons] my kids still love to play with... and most of them are adults now!!)
  • Water balloons, you can fill and place in a Rubbermaid container or laundry basket and surprise the kids with!  A quick Internet search can provide a plethora of game ideas for these slippery buggers!
  • A good ole-fashioned sprinkler can provide hours of fun (while watering the lawn!!!) and just like the water balloons, a host of sprinkler games are out there for the discovering!
  • Never under-estimate the power of a bucket or Rubbermaid bin filled with water!!!  When we were staying with my mother-in-law prior to heading into missions work, my kids used an old toy bucket and clean plastic containers out of the recycle bin to have water fights and build habitats for their plastic animal toys!!

When you don't have a backyard...
For the apartment or non-yard dweller, do you have a patio or porch?  Small scale water fun can be had on these.  Also, bathtub and kitchens can host water-table type play.  Many cities are setting up free public wading pools and sprinkler parks, you can check out some of these as well.  You can also talk to a friend or family member about a weekly water play-date using their yard (if they have one) to host... offer to bring the treats and supplies!

When the "Party" is Over...
Keep the hose handy, don't be afraid of mud and simply enforce a firm rule that anyone covered in anything other than water must not only try to dry off before coming inside but must also be properly rinsed of non-water objects (ie grass, mud and such). 
*Don't forget the sunscreen and beach hats as well.  It may be a back yard but those UVs will still get ya!!

I would love to hear your ideas for Backyard Beach/Pool "Parties".  Hopefully you caught last week's article on Adventuring a.k.a. Staycationing All Summer Long (link in text).  It kicked off a basic overview of this concept of "Stay-cationing" for an entire summer.  Today's DIVE into pools is part of that series!

I hope your summer has some fun wet and wild moments.  Make memories right where you are, share the excitement and I believe your kids will learn to love these little moments as much as any big ones you could whisk them away on!

Blessings,








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Monday, July 2, 2018

Adventuring a.k.a. Stay-cationing All Summer Long



July is actually here!!!  Wow, it is as if someone flung open the door of summer and said, if there was any doubt before, "It is THAT time!!"  In this past week's newsletter* I reflected on our family's stay-cationing practises during my children's formative years.  Staying home for vacation was an integral part of their upbringing, mostly out of necessity and partly out of a mother's adventurous spirit needing some sort of break in the mundane.  Stay-cationing wasn't even a term back then but we had nailed the concept.

During those years, we ran our own fledgling business.  We were committed to me being a stay-at-home mom and were therefore willing to make the sacrifices it would require with 4 children to feed and clothe and school.  It meant living paycheck to paycheck and holding our breath for miracles in emergencies. Yet, in the midst of it all, I was determined my kids would never feel strapped, resentful, or deprived.  No.  I was adamant they learn to value the simple things; know how to entertain themselves with nothing but a box and some markers, appreciate the variations of leafing trees, and grow in a sense of adventure for the sheer simplicity of the great outdoors without bells and whistles (well, except for those we used to scare away bears on hikes!)

Summer was no exception.

As a matter of fact, summer was the perfect time to exercise our adventurous spirit right.where.we.were with little to no money.  In reflection, I thought of a list which might help the budding adventurists out there.  I would love to hear if you have more to add to it!! For now, this is what came to mind:

How to adventure right.where.you.are
 .... aka "An introductory guide to stay-cationing all summer long"!


#1 - Put on an adventurous spirit 
I will admit, not everyone is born with a desire to adventure.  Me: my family says I am part Gypsy... it's in my blood.  I go stir crazy without some adventure!  Colossians 3:1-17 has a GREAT synopsis on putting on and while Paul is talking about Spiritual issues, the concept can be applied here too.  CHOOSE to adventure, put on a curious and idealistic spirit.  Pursue to see God at work, even in the little things.  Marvel at the world around you, whether it is the concrete of the city and the power of God in the minds of men to build on such a scale.... or the work of an ant and it's remarkable God-ordained attributes to toil as it does.


#2 - Start small if adventuring intimidates you   
Start with planning adventure just one day a week.  I hear a lot of homeschoolers call these "field trips"... I called them "adventures".  More on that in a minute.  Don't feel like this Summer stay-cation stuff has to fill every corner of every day.  You aren't the activities director in charge of packing full an itinerary for a week-long resort stay!  Pick a day each week that fits your family's schedule and make that "Adventure Day".  Also, don't feel like you need to plan something HUGE... it can be as simple as a nature walk or a movie in the park or a bike ride.


#3 - Build the mind-set and excitement  
I don't know about you and your family, but for us, part of the excitement of a traveling vacation is knowing it is coming, making plans, talking about it and having special things that only go with vacation (like carry-on bags or magazines or travel snacks)  So here is the subset:
  • Name it.  As mentioned, I call ours "adventures". I would build everyone's excitement and anticipation by saying things like, "We are going to have an adventure on Friday." or, in reflection, "Wasn't that a great adventure?!", or, "I wonder what we will see/learn on our adventure today." And if someone asked where we were going, my reply: "On an adventure!" You get the idea.  You may opt to call yours something else.  I like "adventure" because it gives a sense of mystery and excitement!
  • Have special go-alongs.  On beach days, we had a beach bag... only used for that excursion.  We also had an insulated snack bag that only accompanied our "adventures". We had special snacks like trying fun trail mix recipes, granola bars or gummy snacks (dentist horror stories on these made them a once-in-a-while special treat).  I would also get special 'travel' beverages like juice boxes which were only used for our 'adventures'.  Toys, magazines, coloring books and other such paraphernalia set aside just for local travel and outings give that same sense of "something fun and special is happening today", like major traveling would elicit.
  • GET EXCITED!! Your kids will take their lead from you.  If you talk about upcoming 'adventures' or wake them up with a "SURPRISE, we are having an adventure today", they will get excited and, back to #1, if you are having a hard time getting into it, 'putting on' the excitement for them will build it in yourself.
#4 - Planning helps but is not required 
Maybe you are queen of spontaneity... go for it!  For me, when my kids were growing up, I wanted to be spontaneous but packing a diaper bag and local travel paraphernalia required some forward thinking on my part.  We couldn't afford to buy meals out so packing potential meals and snacks had to be factored in as well. 

To plan, check local periodicals and websites for summertime family-friendly events.  Look into your local library's summer schedule... most have incentivized reading programs for kids 0-18 and other great craft and learning activities.  Museums and zoos often have free and discount days, and local pools will sometimes do events providing discounted or free entry.   Check for community fairs, farmer's markets, and parks and recreation activities.  Many cities are starting to offer free movies in local parks now... talk about a fun outdoorsy experience!!  Speaking of movies, some cinemas will do children discount days during the summer allowing your whole family to see a flick if you have a couple extra dollars to roll around.

I started a routine at the onset of every summer where I collected local periodicals and visited websites to see listings of events happening throughout the summer.  Most events also listed if there was a fee, which I would assess on the affordability scale.  Any that did not express these details, I called to verify cost.  Naturally, I leaned towards the FREE and low cost events in my scouting. 

Next, I printed out calendars for the summer months and proceeded to enter in the various events and their details on the appropriate dates.  Some events had directions I needed or detailed schedules... I tore those out of their periodicals or printed online resource info and tucked them in my planner.  These compiled 'events calendars' gave me a birds-eye-view of all the activities which pertained to us.  I posted my spiffy calendar in a central location so everyone could see, although, admittedly, I was usually the only one that looked!

Finally, each week I would assess our regular schedule, the weather, and any other variables and then make our plans accordingly using the events calendars. We had weekly adventures everyone anticipated throughout the summer like "Picnic in the Park" which occurred every Wednesday at lunchtime.  The kids always looked forward to the picnic blanket, special packed lunch, and live music with room for kids to run around and dance.  Library reading programs and accompanying craft activities were a weekly plus as well.  We filled in empty days alternately with swimming, hiking, stay-home chilling, crafts and the special events like Powwows, parades and community fairs, etc.

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This has not been an exhaustive list, rather, hopefully, something to get you thinking in a direction.  When I look back on my kids' growing up, I think I miss summer the most.  We didn't pack in EVERY single day with high-octane "to-dos", but we kept a buzz going about the place so that they rarely said, "I'm bored" and they always had something fun and relateable to talk about.  We took their friends when we could and left plenty of margins so the kids could choose activities to-go or to-stay.  Screen time was rationed so they had plenty of incentive to not be couch potatoes!


I hope this helps!!  If you have ideas or questions, please be sure to leave a comment or email me.  More coming in this "Summertime" series including: backyard beach/pool parties without a big fancy beach or pool, summer crafting, fun at farmer's markets and more!  If you have any suggestions for summer themes you'd like to see me expound on, please let me know.  All participants in our "Summertime" 'conversation' get entered for a super mystery summer drawing!

Remember... you don't need a ton of money or piles of vacation days to make summertime memorable for you and your family.  You just need to put on a little bit of adventure and away you can go!

For more summer vacation ideas, check out this article, "Setting Summer in Motion: How to have a GREAT summer break!"

Blessings,







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